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Want to live outside of your home?
Here's what it feels like

3 days ago, I moved out of my hometown where I have been living for like more than 21 years. And it was a quite difficult transition as I always stayed within the comfort of home and this was the first time when I was actually feeling like I have pushed my comfort zone.
Here are 3 things you need to know before moving out of your home:
1. It's going to be difficult
Moving out of your home town and settling in a completely new place is supposed to be difficult and it is. You'd be leaving your friends, Parents, and your loved ones behind.
It would be a completely new city filled with strangers. But if they stay strangers or become your friends depends on you.
But don't think that it's going to be easy. Accept the fact that it's going to be difficult and you'll suffer a bit and it's okay.
2. You need to be prepared
Stay prepared to be scammed. Stay prepared for your things to be stolen. Stay prepared for miscommunication.
Take precautionary steps to avoid all of these. Check the rates of things online before going to the store physically. Don't place your things here and there. It's not your home.
Once someone knows, that you don't speak their language. They are going to take advantage of you. And it's up to you to learn from your first few mess-ups and become aware of the ways you can be fooled.
3. It can both be a good experience or a bad experience
The kind of experience you're going to have in a new place depends largely on you and how you behave and react to different things. Don't think black and white.
Just know that pushing past your comfort zone is supposed to give you a mix of good and bad experiences.
It will not be a completely good experience or a bad experience. It is going to be a combination of both. And what you experience most completely depends on you.
So, Take full responsibility for your experiences, feelings, and events in your life. Because you're more likely responsible for a majority of them than you'd like to accept.
Happy Moving Out!!!